You said YES! Now what?!

You're freshly engaged and there's no doubt that this is one of the most exciting times in your life! Celebrate and jumpstart planning with these top 10 things to do after you say yes! 

1. Call your parents! 

They deserve the honor of hearing the news first! A phone call is great, but if you can celebrate in person, it's an excuse for some champagne and the start of making awesome memories!

2. Call friends & family

Before you post to Instagram, make sure that those closest to you hear the news from you rather than your profile! Their reactions will be priceless and you'll definitely want to hear them firsthand. ...Then you can immediately share photos of your new bling ;)

3. Treat yourself to a manicure

EVERYONE is going to be staring at your ring. Feel extra confident showing it off with beautiful nails. 

4. Visit your jeweler

Get your ring sized, appraised, and insured to keep it protected. 

5. Set a date

You might not want to get your hearts set on a specific day since your venue's availability might dictate that for you. Still, you'll definitely want to talk about and agree on the time of year and/or the month for your big day.

6. Come up with a guest count

This rough estimate will help you determine A LOT going forward in your wedding planning. The number of guests will be an important element in choosing a venue and setting a budget.

7. Set a budget

And allocate how much you might want to spend on each vendor. This will help you narrow down where to shop around. 

8. Consult magazines and Pinterest

Maybe you've had your dream wedding pin board created for years, or maybe you've never even given your wedding a thought! No matter where you fall on the spectrum, check out wedding magazines and search online resources like WeddingWireThe Knot, and Pinterest for "wedspiration." With a time of year, a number of guests, and a budget in mind, you can have a better idea of what you want your big day to look like and what will be logistically possible. 

9. Begin your venue tour

Deciding where your wedding will be located should be fun! A big question you'll have to answer before you go is where you want your ceremony to be. Your venue will need to know if they'll be hosting your ceremony or only the reception. Make sure you take LOTS of notes about their offerings, what you like, and what you don't. Keep a rough timeline in your head as you do so; you'll want to leave plenty of time for transportation and photo-taking. 

10. Set regular date nights

We love this idea and cannot stress the importance enough! Your lives will seem consumed with wedding planning as an engaged couple, but you'll want to set aside time where it can be just the two of you enjoying each other and conversation away from all wedding topics! 



#TBT Real Wedding Style

Here at Silverfox, we love seeing the finished products of our brides and grooms having a blast! In the spirit of Throwback Thursday-or #tbt as it's formally known ;) enjoy some of our select real Silverfox Wedding moments. 

Robert & Christina - The Inn at New Hyde Park

Gorgeous hues of soft pink and purple uplighting and Silverfox DJs spinning a mix of Top 40 set the tone for celebration! Robert and Christina's darling personalities really shine through in every captured moment of this party-rocking event, while delicate cherry blossom branches loan a breathtaking finish to this springtime modern Long Island Wedding. 

Candice & Brodie - Oheka Castle

Crisp whites, hardwood floors, and the incandescent flicker of candles made this classic Long Island wedding a living fairytale. Silverfox DJs curated a fabulous mix of classic standards and tasteful modern dance grooves that delighted and excited Candice and Brodie's guests, who happened to travel all the way from down under. That's right, Oheka Castle was a destination wedding for these two Australian love birds. Silverfox Photography captured some beautiful  joy-filled moments! 

Stephanie & Chris - Woodbury Country Club

This Wedding Reception was bursting with fun, playful energy! Woodbury Country Club boasts a gorgeous natural wood dance floor, offsetting the delicately dressed windows, and dazzling wall treatments of this room. You can truly see the love radiating from this bride and groom, surrounded by the warmth of their beautiful  family and friends!

Janis & Charles - Westbury Manor

What a crowd! The Wedding Reception of Janis and Charles had incredible photo-ops. We love Westbury Manor's intimate and elegant setting, and with our loungey purple uplighting, it was a pumping  party to remember. These folks got down until the very last dance, had incredible, emotionally charged speeches, and exploded with excitement on the dance floor.

 

 

Katie + Gordon

Time to celebrate the "Real Wedding" of SilverFoxy DJ couple, Katie and Gordon! These love birds said their "I do's" at a beautiful church before heading over to Woodbury County Club where they celebrated friends, family, and becoming husband and wife! DJ Oscar was accompanied by MC Steven, and together, they rocked the house. Some of our favorite moments include their "first touch" and the emotional father daughter dance. Take a glance at these highlights from the big day captured by Silverfox Photography!